We never have a set time, or place when “The One” walks into our lives. I’m going to talk about us guys today; however, it’s for all the women out there to know how they should be getting treated as well. Life is moving faster than it ever has before. Social media is causing havoc on our interpersonal skills and relationships in general. The problem is, it’s breaking down our basic human needs, and replacing them with selfish agendas.
We have five basic needs as humans; self-actualization, esteem, love/belonging, safety, and physiological. I want to single out the most important one in my opinion, and that’s love/belonging. I could spend hours on this subject alone, however this one is specific to men, and how we’re treating our Ladies.
First and foremost, not all of us are us lucky to find “The One”. With that said, most of us do in our lifetime. The guys really need to spend some time on this one; I mean really wrap your heads around it. Somebody thinks enough of you, and all your flaws, to put up with you on a daily basis. This alone should qualify most women for Sainthood, it really should.
Most of us are aware of this; however, most out there drop the ball on this very important aged old rule. You should be treating your Lady the same way you treated her when you were pursuing her. Plain and simple, that’s how it should be. Too much false advertisement out there these days. If you’re opening up doors, sending her loving texts, and buying her flowers… don’t stop. A real man is never looking for another woman, because he’s too busy looking for new ways to love his own. That’s a really easy concept guys, and one you should be utilizing. If you have a daughter, this is what you should want for her.
Too many women are being neglected every single day. They should be cherished, and praised for the love they bring to our lives. We touched on basic human needs, and love and belonging fits directly into this arena we’re in today. See them; see them for the amazing women that they are. Compliment them daily, and never go one day without them knowing where you stand with them. Never go to bed upset with them; never close your eyes at night without kissing them; never, ever take them for granted.
How we treat our wives is being watched by our sons and daughters. We’re showing our sons how to treat women, and our daughters how they should expect to be treated. Our women are our Queens, and we should honor them in that way.
So, let’s put down our cell phones at night. Start making time for them, and only them. They’re living in the same crazy world as we are, and if you’re doing what you should be doing and adoring them, your life and your family’s life will be full of love every single day. Life is too short, love her, and love her with everything you have.