Philosophy of rocks & sand
Philosophy classes were mandatory at my Christian liberal arts college in Orange City. I remember the first day of class when the professor insisted that the chair I was sitting on was nothing but a figment of my imagination. Sure, in some philosophical circles, this may indeed be believed. And yes, I did end up learning a thing or two from that class. But when I opened an e-mail message from my aunt a few days ago, I read about a philosophy professor who would have easily gained both my attention and admiration during the lesson. It was such a good lesson I thought I'd share it with our readers:
"A philosophy professor stood before his class and had some items in front of him. When class began, wordlessly he picked up a large empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks right to the top, rocks about two inches in diameter. He then asked the students if the jar was full?
"They agreed that it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them in to the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks. The students laughed. He asked his students again if the jar was full?
"They agreed that yes, it was. The professor then picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
"'Now,' said the professor, 'I want you to recognize that this is your life.
"'The rocks are the important things - your family, your partner, your health, your children - anything that is so important to you that if it were lost, you would be nearly destroyed.
"'The pebbles are the other things in life that matter, but on a smaller scale. The pebbles represent things like your job, house, or car.
"'The sand is everything else, the small stuff. If you put the sand or the pebbles into the jar first, there is no room for the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your energy and time on the small stuff, material things, you will never have room for the things that are truly most important.'"
Good illustration and good advice.
And if anyone ever tries telling you there are rocks in your head, you can take it with a smile.